Curls have different patterns, densities and needs. A routine that respects your texture and fits your schedule is more useful than a rigid set of rules.
A thoughtful approach
Cleanse as often as your scalp and hair need, then apply conditioner through the lengths. Detangle gently in sections when hair is damp and conditioned, using fingers or a wide-tooth comb.
Make it your own
Try a leave-in product if it makes your curls easier to manage. Avoid pulling when styling, and adjust product amounts so hair feels comfortable rather than coated.